One night, dozens of experiences, hundreds of women, and years of bragging rights because you were a part of it. You've Made GrrlSpot's Southern Decadence Event One of The Most Talked About Women's Events In The Country. This year, we're taking over the historic Joy Theater and showing the world that Lesbian bars aren't vanishing...they're moving. The Lesbian Bar is Wherever We Are. ...and GrrlSpot couldn't do it without You. More bars, more performers, more girls, more reasons not to miss GrrlSpot at The Joy for Southern Decadence.